For the parents, that meant at least one match per week per boy, not to mention the training sessions, about two per week per boy. Nick was kind enough to drive himself to his indoor soccer games, but the rest of the boys depended on the parents to meet their constantly shifting schedules. In fact, they also depended on Nick at times when there were too many conflicting games for even both parents to handle.
For example, Alban would have a competitive tournament “over the hill” as we say in Santa Cruz, meaning normally on the Peninsula (e.g. Palo Alto) or in the in the South Bay (e.g. San Jose) or East Bay (e.g. Pleasanton) lasting all day Saturday and Sunday. That effectively took one parent out of circulation in Santa Cruz all weekend.
Then two of the three other Saturday games would clash, and of course were never on the same field! The other parent would drive to one of those games, meaning that both parents are now irremediably busy, and Nick would be drafted in to drive to the other. Thanks Nick! Your car was a good idea after all.
I was in heaven watching as many of these games as I physically could. I’ve always liked watching soccer, from a young age when my dad and I did so together, mostly on the BBC. Watching when one of your own children is playing is much more satisfying and engaging!
The fall season was Alex’s second season with the Happy Valley under 8s in the recreational league. He was in heaven, and lived for his Saturday games and midweek training sessions. His 2003 Xmas list included a soccer ball, goalie gloves, and a Manchester United shirt with Ruud van Nistelrooy’s name and number on it. He got them all!
His 2004 Xmas list included a soccer ball and goalie gloves. He got them too. We’re not growing out of this in a hurry!
Charlie graduated to the Under 9s developmental league, a new league in the area put together by a group of local coaches and soccer afficiandos. Their goal is to help the young people develop by giving them better competition, in and out of their teams. Great idea, guys! Charlie had a great time playing at a higher level. Thanks in particular to Paul and Lynden Gooch for their respective contributions: a great and hard-working coach, and a little dynamo of a player who inspires all around him to better things!
Here is more of Paul and Lynden, with their Fall 2005 team.
After a year with the Aptos Aftershocks (so named because the boys in the team were all born around the time of the Loma Prieta earthquake in 1989), Alban moved on to the Santa Cruz Arsenal, another local under 14s Class 3 comp. team. He had a rewarding season.
We had let him down earlier in his playing career when we decided erroneously that we just didn’t have the time to cover a competitive team for him as well as recreational teams for the other children. We figured out how to do it this 2003 season, although to be honest this was the first season that it was easily feasible. The key factor was Nick having his license and being able to drive the third car, which was all new.
Tom was our late starting soccer player, after two years of rugby in France and a year in Pop Warner football. He played under 14 rec., and scored a couple of great goals that we saw, as well as a few more that we heard about. He’d really regretted being unable to locate rugby here after enjoying playing so much in France. But beginning with this season, he began to share our other boys’ pleasure in soccer.
Finally, Nick played for a comp. team too, but in addition was Assistant Coach of the Happy Valley School Mustangs, an under 12 rec. team. Here he is with his Co-Coach and young charges on the day that each received his or her reward for playing for the team.
Except for this last photo, the photos on this page cover the fall season. There was also a spring season, co-ed at the younger ages (like the team Nick was coaching), and indoor in the summer. Our boys wanted to do it all, every season! And so they did. We could fit it all in, with a little help!