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  • 2023 in photos and tales

    Four short tales from the year, interspersed with photos (telling their own tales), followed by a photo gallery. Tale 1. Chance encounter with Silicon Valley Douglas and Ruth Mackay invited us to…

  • 2020: Dodging Bullets

    Before the virus showed its stuff, we did make it to the Elvis Costello concert in Sunderland, northeast England, on March 3. Third row tickets explained the choice of venue, and the…

  • 2018: Karma!

    I have studiously avoided our divorce during the last few years of these annual updates. The topic is depressing, for me and the children as much as for you, and there are…

  • 2016: how does it feel?

    I was sitting at the bar in Oswald’s, one of Santa Cruz’s nicer restaurants, chatting and flirting. This was during the year’s gap between girlfriends, sometime during the summer. First a woman…

  • 2013: me and the boys

    Happy Holidays, everyone!! It’s been a solitary year here. I don’t say lonely, because with the possible exception of holidays built around families, I’m having a fine time – so many little…

  • Looking back on 2010

    Every year (almost!) since 1997, we have sent an annual update to friends and family. They are collected here. This is the first update since we parents moved apart. Early in this…

  • 2008: chugging along!

    Here’s the 2008 annual update that we sent to friends and family for the holiday season at the end of the year, with a few embellishments: Happy Holidays to you and yours! One…

  • 2007: Adolescence

    Here is our annual update from December 2007. It’s that time again: Best Wishes for the Holidays from Santa Cruz to you! Our adolescents remained determinedly adolescent again this year, which was not…

  • 2006: children 6 – parents 0

      Happy Holidays, everyone! Starting with the youngest this year, Alex is thriving. He loves his soccer as much as Charlie, and is a star in his own right already. He’s played the…

  • 2005: starting to move on!

    Here’s a summary of 2005, loosely based on the annual update circulated to friends and family around Christmas time. Greetings and best wishes for the holiday season from Santa Cruz! 2005 marked the…

  • 2003: a job in Southern California

    Again, we circulated no annual update for friends and family this year. It’s hard to remember why, but Marie-Hélène and I essentially lived apart from June 2003 through April 2004, because of the…

  • 2002: zoom zoom!

    We’re not really sure why, but somehow 2002 did not merit an annual update for friends and family. Well, maybe we do have an idea why! We started writing an update in…

  • 2001: the good old days!

    9/11/2001: us in America In 2001, after what was for him an interminable wait while Alban played on his team week after week, Charlie started at age 6 playing  soccer in the local under-8 soccer league.…

  • 2000: Y2K without incident

    For our family as for the world, which had been dreading some bizarre kind of computer meltdown with the start of the new millenium, Y2K passed pretty much without dramatic incident. Accordingly,…

  • 1999: Nick and Tom back

    HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYBODY!!!! Here in Santa Cruz, 1999 has been a very good year. Here’s hoping that your year has gone half as well! First things first. On April 15, 1999 the Versailles…